Why is it so difficult to find a virgin woman in todays society?

I am a 21 year old man that is dedicated to going to church and I am also a virgin myself. I believe in Jesus Christ and I have kept myself pure and expect my future wife to be a virgin herself. I have met alot of women and had rejected them because they where not a virgin. It is the idea that another man's business was already in her. The woman will always remember her ex-lovers and I don't want to be compared to any joker that I don't know. For example, say if she has slept with 30 different guys and you do it to her. You just slept with her and all 30 guys she been with which is very disgusting and immoral. Would you eat a piece of pecan pie if someone has already stuck their finger in it and ate some I wouldn't. I only have three standards. Hazel Eyes, Christian, Virgin...